I really wish I could convince Ogre of this. If he doesn't feel like he can put everything away and deal with all of that, he does nothing. So the bathroom doesn't get cleaned in weeks.
Or I come in, move shit, wipe shit down, and move it back.
We have the same problem with vacuuming. If I'm overwhelmed I'll just vacuum down the middle, whatever I can reach without moving shit. He wants to totally deconstruct and re-construct the room. And it is infuriating because he feels this needs to be a two person process.
Sorry for venting at you. Apparently I need to find that woman's videos and play them over and over in his sleep.
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Date: 2023-06-13 05:17 pm (UTC)Or I come in, move shit, wipe shit down, and move it back.
We have the same problem with vacuuming. If I'm overwhelmed I'll just vacuum down the middle, whatever I can reach without moving shit. He wants to totally deconstruct and re-construct the room. And it is infuriating because he feels this needs to be a two person process.
Sorry for venting at you. Apparently I need to find that woman's videos and play them over and over in his sleep.