Yeah, removing body and facial hair, styling head hair, wearing makeup but only the right kind of makeup, wearing the right kind of scent, wearing the right kind of clothing and shoes (not too boyish but not too feminine but not too dressy but not too casual), nails done "right," "appropriate" jewelry, having the right shape body (slender, small nose, boobs but not too much boob, small butt and hips), etc. There's so many fine lines to walk and it's so, so aggressively WASP-y.