Oh boy do I hear you. Parenting is work. Hard work. It's long hours, it's getting your hands dirty and there's no scheduled break, unless you're lucky enough to have a family member help out or some childcare. On top of that, you have the added responsibility of an entire person immediate and perhaps even long term future. What you feed them, how you treat them, it all plays into how they will grow up.

Parenting is work. There's just no way around it.