It is more effective though, to say, "Our talk was so enjoyable it would be great to do it again. Can you write your contact info on this card so we can discuss getting in touch another time?"
I say more effective because -- news flash, sweetie -- you are not the only person who is socially insecure about EVERYTHING. If you leave it up to this other socially insecure person only to get in touch with you, she may not, because, socially insecure!
Also, even if nothing comes of it, you did not lose because you reached out. It is better to reach out than to run away! (unless you're Niko, running away the pent up energies, of course :).
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It is more effective though, to say, "Our talk was so enjoyable it would be great to do it again. Can you write your contact info on this card so we can discuss getting in touch another time?"
I say more effective because -- news flash, sweetie -- you are not the only person who is socially insecure about EVERYTHING. If you leave it up to this other socially insecure person only to get in touch with you, she may not, because, socially insecure!
Also, even if nothing comes of it, you did not lose because you reached out. It is better to reach out than to run away! (unless you're Niko, running away the pent up energies, of course :).
Yeah, don't I sound like I know it all!
Love, C.