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I learned a few things this Thanksgiving!

1) Sweet potatoes work really well in the slow cooker. Put some foil around them or line the bottom of the insert in case they spill out delicious goo.
2) If you eat an entire sweet potato before the rest of the meal you will be too full to eat much of the delicious food on your plate.
3) Make double the amount of ricotta mixture when making a lasagna with boil noodles. I don't know why it's different but it is.
4) Food cools down FAST. I forgot how quickly it cools down. I'm very seriously considering getting a few sterno sets. I'm not a fan of room temperature lasagna! Well, ok. My lasagna is always good, even cold. But I prefer it hot.
5) When we redo our kitchen I'm going to ask for a spot with a warming lamp.
6) Related: Some way to put things like deviled eggs and cheeses on ice/a cool surface
7) I need more trivets, but towels can work in a pinch to protect surfaces from heat.
8) I need a longer table cloth. We were able to make things work with only one leaf but I'd have liked to put in both of them.
9) Next year for Christmas I'm asking for Nesko to get a third leaf made somehow. Our table has room for way more leaves than we have.
10) Unless I know for a fact that I'm having a lot of people over I need to make only a half pan of lasagna and freeze the other half for later. The broccoli casserole I made and the stuffing I made were both scaled for 8x8 pans and still made too much for our group. I can split each thing between bread pans and freeze half for later and cook the other half.
11) Pecan pie fucking slaps, and buying pies from a quality place is absolutely worth it. I already knew this but it's good to remind myself.
12) I need more vintage/cut glass/mid century modern serve-ware, especially bowls. Yes, this may seem to contradict #13 but I love how funky and cool it looks. Plus, having a plate with little impressions for deviled eggs is awesome.
13) Our everyday plates and glasses worked really well, I'm releasing my in-grained desire for really nice fine china holiday plates that need to be washed gently and delicately by hand and will fade and chip no matter how careful you are.
14) I might get another set of our plates and bowls, though, so I have another 4 each of everything and can thus accommodate more people. Nesko's immediate family consists of 12 people (so far, people might have more kids).
15) Having gotten used to the idea of every day plates for a fancy meal, paper plates are an option as well. I don't know why it helps me make that jump but it does.
16) It's really REALLY nice to not have to worry about dogs or small children and to thus have appetizers on a coffee table. I guess that's more "a reflection" than "a lesson."

UPDATE

Nov. 24th, 2022 02:02 pm
brigid: drawing of two women, one whispering to the other (Default)
One of our guests, who I don't know as well, cancelled. This is sad, but we can get together later.

The other one who came is someone we know extremely well so we didn't, uh, we didn't wind up cleaning as thoroughly as we should have.

Everything's on track so far to go into the oven and come out of the oven at the same time.

I wound up making red sauce for the lasagna. If I were making this lasagna again I'd double the ricotta mixture.

Nesko has a new appreciation for what a pain in the butt it is to use lasagna noodles you have to boil instead of no-boil noodles. They absolutely do taste better but it's nice to not scald myself or have a pile of noodles that are sticking together.
brigid: (home)
I made red sauce. It's vegetarian because I forgot to get meat. It's not vegan because I used butter both to saute the onions as well as to cut the acidity of the sauce.

I put together the ricotta mixture for the lasagna. Tomorrow I'll boil the lasagna noodles and assemble it. I was going to put together the broccoli casserole as well but I got hung up doing some cleaning things and got tired.

Nesko is going to help me peel and cut potatoes then put them in water tomorrow night so I can cook and mask them Wednesday.

I also need to remember to boil eggs for deviled eggs.

I'm going ahead with making full pans of lasagna and broccoli casserole because some people who will be eating on Thursday really love both lasagna and broccoli casserole. I checked and the full pans fit in the oven.

We have had, For Reasons, a very large cardboard box with a wall mounted microwave vent hood and a very large cardboard box with a wall cabinet to go over the wall mounted microwave vent hood in the dining room for about five years now. At least. It's hard to have people come over for a visit when you have two enormous boxes just... sitting there. We're going to try to move them into the office for very temporary storage or, failing that, put them in the living room with tablecloths over them as tables. We also still have a LOT of stuff from the kitchen cabinets that are no longer usable stashed around the dining room (as well as a very large bin of stuffed animals we aren't permitted to put elsewhere, and a bit of bedding). I absolutely do not want to get into a frenzy of shoving things into any easily hideable space. No, it needs to be a well-organized frenzy.

I am not really a person who does well with a time line that allows me to leisurely approach an end goal and complete all the tasks needed before that end goal arrives. I try to be! I try to be organized and make plans and make lists and cross things off. And then I need that pressure of the time limit to motivate me. So part of me is all "do this! do that! do this! make other person do this! stop sitting! get up! do this other thing!" and part of me is all ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh it'll get done.

The cleanest and most organized my house has ever been was when I had people coming over every week.

Anyway tomorrow we need to:

  • pick up the pies we ordered

  • see if we can borrow my mother in law's oval dutch oven which will easier to boil the long lasagna noodles in

  • assemble the broccoli casserole

  • assemble the stuffing (to be placed in the slow cooker to actually cook)

  • peel and cut the two kinds of potatoes

  • boil 12 eggs

  • finish cleaning and clearing



And then there's still Thursday morning
brigid: drawing of two women, one whispering to the other (Default)
Went to Whole Foods to hunt down Yukon Gold potatoes and maybe "Yukon Gold" is a brand? They had "Gold Potatoes" which look the same and WHATEVER I just want to boil them and mash them (and later on I'll stick them in a stew I guess. Or split pea soup.). Anyway, we went to Whole Foods and it made me really remember how much I hate Whole Foods. This one was especially bad, poorly laid out, and with a cheese selection that was really lacking. I could find better at Mariano's and they aren't even a Wisconsin chain any more!

I was set to do some cleaning and prep etc but someone rolled their ankle earlier today and now it's swollen and bruised blue, probably a sprain, and they needed some babying. This mostly consisted of me making them soup and toast and bringing them ice water, a cookie, and pain killers then listening to them complain. It's the little things, you know?

This has put me behind on cleaning and prep and also I kind of don't care. I did a lot over the weekend and I'm sitting here now unable to remember what day of the week it is (Monday. I think? Yes, Monday.) so perhaps I just need to... not do anything this evening.

Tomorrow I'm going to make the broccoli casserole and the lasagna - two things that sound daunting to many people but, at least in the case of the lasagna, isn't that bad at all really. I'm debating whether I should bake them ahead and then reheat them or not and the time difference isn't that great so I'm going to assemble them Tuesday then bake them on Thursday. Of course I won't add the cracker crumbs to the broccoli casserole until right before it goes into the oven. I'm probably going to toast up some panko with some butter and seasoning as well - this really elevates any casserole but especially home made macaroni and cheese. Toss some butter in a pan, melt it, throw in some panko and your favorite seasoning, and stir it around until it's browned but not burnt or anything. You have to keep it moving!

I might make the gravy tomorrow also, I'll see how I'm feeling. Tuesdays are usually especially busy at work as a very specific weekly thing happens that day, and we're already behind on some other stuff. So either it'll be off the wall or it won't be and I don't know which it will be which means I can't easily brace myself.

Speaking of gravy, I neglected to make the red sauce for the lasagna which I really should have done tonight. I'll put it on the stove top ASAP tomorrow when I get home from work and start on the broccoli casserole and mix up the ricotta filling for the lasagna, at least. Assembly is easy.

When I was a kid we (by which I mean my mom and I and none of the other three people, all male, in the household) would finish cleaning the kitchen after dinner, do ALL the prep and assembly the Wednesday before Thanksgiving, and then spend most of Thanksgiving putting things into and pulling things out of the oven. Having these extra days before hand is helpful and I don't know why my mom didn't take advantage of them, although obviously she had reasons not to (the reasons might have been she was working 62-80 hours a week and just wanted to sleep).

Anyway, I'm scattered because I'm sleepy and also these blog entries are kind of acting like notes for next year. Reminder to self that red sauce can be made well in advance and then frozen. I forget about freezing things like that sometimes because our fridge/freezer is very small and generally very full with stuff that would fill a "normal" sized fridge only 2/3s of the way up.
brigid: (home)
I spent very literally an hour at the grocery store today getting Thanksgiving groceries.

My best friend is appalled and cannot understand what took so long.

First of all I couldn't find yukon gold potatoes. They just didn't exist. I am not used to them not existing so I walked around the produce section a lot looking for them. No. There are none. There also weren't bags of yellow onions, I had to paw through a bin of yellow onions that were pretty small. A woman joined me and commented on how small they were. I agreed, said I wasn't used to not being able to buy them in bags, and then said I couldn't find the yukon gold potatoes.

She said there is a potato shortage.

I am a potato person so that is... alarming.

I managed to get russet potatoes and sweet potatoes and hopefully can find yukon gold at another store... I want to do half yukon gold and half russet in my mashed potatoes this year.

The other thing that slowed me down was all the people who don't normally grocery shop. Or perhaps they have never gone grocery shopping before. You know what I'm talking about, I'm sure. People stopping in the middle of the aisle, cart askew, staring blankly at the relish. There isn't enough room to get around. They don't hear you the first few times you excuse yourself. There was a guy standing in front of the egg nog section of the dairy fridges, too close to the door for anyone else to open it, contemplating the egg nog offerings. It took him several minutes. He finally drifted away and I dashed forward and jerked the door open. The guy who'd been waiting before I got there looked sadly resigned. I gestured for him to go ahead. He grabbed an egg nog and left. I grabbed 2 egg nog and a carton of heavy cream. It took about 45 seconds for both of us to do our thing and move on. There were abandoned carts. There were end caps too large for the aisle. There were employees blocking the aisles as they restocked Christmas items.

There was also live music.

It was hellish! The fact that it took an hour was incredibly depressing, especially give that I had a very specific list and I stuck to it!

But I survived and now have everything (hopefully) that I need for Thanksgiving, minus the bolillo rolls and the pies we're picking up Wednesday.
brigid: (home)
A man puts his life on the line by not understanding Thanksgiving
Crabgrass by Tauhid Bondia for 11-15-2022

There's two big issues with planning things for Thanksgiving:
1) How to get everything so it's hot and ready to be put on the table at the same time
2) How to plan out what needs to be IN the oven, what needs to be ON the stove, and what can go in a slow cooker.

I'm doing a ham, 325* for 10-15 minutes per pound, which will probably take up an entire oven rack.

I also need to juggle in the oven:

Reheated Lasagna (oven, 375*, 30 minutes, until filling is 165*)
Reheated Broccoli Casserole (oven, 375*, 30 minutes, until filling is 165*)
Mashed Potatoes (stove top)
Gravy (stove top)
Stuffing, Slow Cooker, High, 3-4 hours
Roasted Sweet Potatoes, Slow Cooker, High, 5 Hours

I can fully make, including bake, the lasagna and broccoli casserole ahead of time. Then I can pull them out of the fridge an hour ahead of time and heat them up for 30-40 minutes. The broccoli casserole? I'd put the crunchy cracker stuff on top of the casserole only before heating it up - not at the original bake.

One of the big questions will be if I want to cook red sauce from scratch or not. It's something I can do ahead of time. Even ahead of time, though, it's still time consuming. It tastes so much better though.

Monday:
Double Check All Bakeware and Serveware
Pick Up Grocery Order

Tuesday:
Make Red Sauce?
Cut and Steam Broccoli
Dice Onion, Celery, etc. and store in water
Slice and Dry Bread

Wednesday:
Assemble & Bake Lasagna
Assemble & Bake Broccoli Casserole (NO crumb topping)
Make Stuffing
Peel and Cut Raw Potatoes and store in water
Set the Dining Room Table
Buy Bolillo Rolls

Thursday:

The sweet potatoes need to go in around 10:30.

The stuffing needs to go in at noon.

Appetizers Go Out, Guests Arrive

Casseroles need to come out at 2:00 to come to room temperature.

If I want to eat at 4:00 then I want the ham out around 3:15. It needs to rest before being served, under a tinfoil hat. The time it goes IN will depend on the SIZE of the ham, which I don't know yet because I haven't bought it yet.

If the ham is out at 3:15 then the two casseroles can go in at that point. Just bump the heat, stick them in. Check the temperature after 20 minutes.

The potatoes, peeled and cut previously, needs to go in boiling water immediately when the casseroles go in.

The roux for the gravy needs to be started immediately after that.

Another option, though, is to make half pan lasagna and broccoli casseroles and put them in earlier with the ham so they come out at the same time and rest at the same time. They can all cook at 350*. Since it's all cooked ahead of time we can have more set aside in the fridge as leftovers/for people to take home.

If I had a third slow cooker I'd cook the broccoli casserole in that. I might get a third slow cooker, which I've been meaning to use for a while.

Either way I'm going to have to disappear into the kitchen around 3:00 and the room is so small and poorly laid out that nobody will really be able to come in and help me. I'll have to really make sure I have room to put things, and to work.

It's only going to be 4 adults and 1 picky teenager at most so I'm just going to use our regular plates and cups and things. It's not a big crowd.
brigid: (home)
I'm not 100% sure about the menu I'm going to serve for Thanksgiving.

The sure things are:

Main Dishes:
A spiral cut ham
A pasta thing like lasagna or stuffed shells

Side Dishes:
Mashed Potatoes
Roasted Sweet Potatoes
Bolillo rolls
Stuffing
Gravy
Broccoli Casserole

Beverages:
Mineral water
Coke
Some kind of punch? Cranberry orange? Sparkling?

Dessert:
Pumpkin Pie
Pecan Pie
Eggnog

I'm not making the pies, I'm buying them from a pie cafe that does homeless outrich.

Possible side dishes:
Crescent Rolls (pillsbury)
Roast cauliflower/broccoli
Glazed carrots

Possible further dessert:
Cookies (purchased)
Brownies

Appetizers:
Deviled Eggs
Tortellini and cheese cube skewers?
Humus (Athena brand)
Pita toasts/chips
Cheese
Crackers

I want to have people come over around noon, snack some on appetizers, hang out and talk, then eat around 3:00. Leisurely meal, plenty of time to digest. Note: these people work from home, aren't around other people much, and we're going to have air filters going.

The ham is already cooked and just needs to be heated (for a few hours).
The pasta dish I can prepare ahead of time (possibly even over the weekend, freeze it, then bring it down to thaw)
The sweet potatoes can be made in the slow cooker.
Most of this can be prepared, or at least prepped for, ahead of time. All I have to do is work out timing.

The hardest part is going to be working with our kitchen, which is currently Having Issues, and sorting out our dining room, which is holding most of our kitchen stuff due to The Issues. I'm going to need to figure out what pots and pans I'm going to need before packing the rest away until The Issues are dealt with (by which I mean pulling down the ceiling, part or all of the wall, and putting up new cabinets).

I can do most if not all of the shopping ahead of time. I've already cleared out the fridge. I have a tentative plan and a lot of experience. Alright!
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Last year's Thanksgiving was a total and absolute bust. I had pretty low key simple plans for Thanksgiving but they relied on a lot of help from Nesko. Nesko, who'd had the Covid and Flu booster/vaccine just previously. Nesko, who spent the day in bed moaning but was perfectly fine the next day. Really bad timing there.

This year I've invited two people over - 2 people who work from home and rarely interact with others - and with windows cracked and air filters running it should be ok, right? Right?

We're running around trying to get everything guest-ready which is honestly A Big Job because we have a leak in the kitchen that's rendered wall cabinets unusable so all the stuff that was IN those cabinets is now in the dining room and it's a lot of stuff. So the dining room isn't currently usable and I need to sort through all that stuff and see what can be packed away and what needs to be stored because I use it frequently and It Is Quite A Job and also I recently went from working in the office 3 days a week to working in the office 4 days a week so I can't spend two lunch breaks + time I'd usually spend commuting on the task, I'm down to one.

We got the carpet thoroughly shampooed using one of the best investments we've made - a carpet shampooer. It became very obvious that we need to do this much more frequently. I want to say that last time we shampooed the carpet we made the same revelation then quickly forgot because it is, quite frankly, a lot of work to move the furniture that is ON the carpet. Which we did. We even raked the carpet thoroughly and rotated it to help with wear patterns etc. It's pretty obvious where we walk on this beautiful carpet which was itself an investment... it cost something like $300 and we were so broke at the time that we paid for it in installments.

I like to do a big Fall Cleaning as well as a Spring Cleaning because we're about to close the house up for the next five or six months and I'd like to be as pleasant as possible and not... musty. Close. Slightly gritty. This place gets dusty like woah and it's possibly because our back parking space is gravel. Probably, in fact. But I don't remember my childhood home getting this dusty when we had a gravel driveway. Maybe that's just because kids don't notice dirt.

We still need to put some of the smaller furniture back in the living room, and then sort out the sunroom which is Lego Central and holy SHIT do we have a lot of Lego... 3 big bins full not counting the assembled sets that are on display. Childhood Lego + Birthday Lego + Christmas Lego + This Is Really Cool Lego + This Star Wars Lego Is Going To Sell Out In A Few Days Buy It Now Lego really... it really adds up, gotta say.

The big thing that's weighing on me though, back to our horrible half-disassembled kitchen, is our fridge. I scrubbed the outside down two weeks ago during my ADHD-Style Clean Sprint which is where I just wander around the house and tackle whatever cleaning stuff I notice. If it gets boring I quit. If it gets too involved I quit. If something else distracts me I quit. I got a lot done including scrubbing the toilet bowl, washing all the dishes (in stages), scrubbing down the front of the fridge as mentioned, and cleaning handprints off woodwork and doors. I organized some stuff too. So the outside of the fridge looks... fine, I guess. It's 14 years old and was brand new when the previous tenants moved in, like actually from a store brand new and not refurbished, and when we moved in I assumed it was at least five years old. No, it was one year old and part of how they trashed the placed. So the front of the fridge looks like someone took a sander to it in spots. It's weird! They stole doorknobs and one of those sink strainer baskets! Why!! But even though it's kind of unsightly we can cover that in cool magnets and take out menus and it's not grimy.

It's the inside that's been bugging me.

I've been picking away at cleaning it, tossing stuff here and there as I see it. I went in today and tossed everything that was expired or spoiled or "what the fuck where did this come from." Everything that's left is food we use regularly. Milk, eggs, butter, cheese, a few cans of soda, salted caramel coffee creamer that's lactose free, a jug of high quality maple syrup, english muffins, etc. There's not much else I can toss, although we can eat up the stuff that's in there and... I don't know. Forgo english muffins for a while? The thing is, the fridge is only like 1/3 empty.

"How can you have THAT MUCH food????? That is SO American." Well yes first of all it is but second of all this fridge is small. It's not a mini fridge but it's a small fridge. If you've rented a cheap apartment you've probably had a fridge like this. It's only about five feet tall. I'm 5'3" and I can see the top of it while standing flat footed, bare footed, on the floor. So we have a very small amount of food, considering, and yet. AND YET. And yet our fridge is still almost full. Not packed, but almost full.

I do not know how much Thanksgiving stuff I can pack in there!

Well, it's only going to be 5 people so I guess I can juggle things and maybe I'll get a cooler to fill with ice to hold drinks so they're not in the fridge. It'll be an adventure.

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